A Day @ THE TEMPLE & LOOK WHAT I CAPTURED

SO THE PIC ABOVE IS WITH OUT FLASH AND LOOK HOW NICE IT IS? CONF CENTER AND WHERE IM STANDING IS ACROSS THE STREET NEAR THE TEMPLE... I THINK IM GUNNA GO INTO PHOTOGRAPHY ONLY CAUSE ITS SOMETHING I ACTUALLY LIKE I HAVENT TAKEN A CLASS YET BUT I GOTTA SAY IM KINDA OKAY LOL FOR NOT TAKING A CLASS FOR PHOTOGRAPHY....
AND HERES THE TEMPLE NO FLASH EITHER AND CAME OUT BEAUTIFUL ....
AND MY LAST ONE OF THE TEMPLE BEFORE I LEFT.... STAY TOONED IM TAKING HOLIDAY PHOTOS OF MY KIDS AND I HOPE THEY COME OUT NICE!!!

The first man I ever LOVED and the first woman I will forever be greatful for and LOVE

What can I say... MY HERO'S.... First off my daddio Seleti Mofuike Naeata the first man I first Loved. Since the day I stepped into the earth its always been him that i ran to if mom said NO!!! Even being married and all I still ask him for things, I mean that's what daughters do right! Specially the ONLY GIRLS lmbo.. The person I am today is because of this humble guy! Through my trials and tribulations my parents were the only one standing weather they were embarrassed of what i did or not they still stood by me. My dad man there are no words that can explain my love for him and what he has done for me and my little family, especially my kids. I can actually talk to him better than I talk to my mom. I even call to tell him that my mom is being mean lol. Its a specially connection that i have with him that I cant explain. I think I owe my life to this man because of what he has done for me and the examples he sets and the joy and laughter he brings me! Just seeing him makes me smile and on top of that because I live in Utah now theres not a day that passes that I dont think of him. So If my dad were to ever read this I just want to tell my dad that through the years that you raised me and all the yelling to lectures to whippings lol your still my hero! you raised me to be on hell of a drama QUEEN lmbo!! but in a good way! taught me how to love those around me, to never give up on anything, to be a good example, to smile even if I'm mad!! to HUMBLE my self.. to support my husband to be his backbone when he needs me!! even though decisions I made in life arnt the best you still LOVED me the SAME! I love you and Thank you for everything you done for me.**YOUR MY HERO DADDY** As for my mother Tupou Ahau suliafu Naeata!! Man where do i start with this lady lol. haha just kidding. So my mom and I always had our times where it almost seemed as if we were sisters!! we fought all the time no matter where we were!! we were both to stubborn to be wrong or to admit it at least so we fought till my dad became part of the problem!! I always thought to myself if my mom was my sister it would be all bad!! lol to the point my dad would always take my side and than after we solved everything my mom was mad at my dad for taking my side!! But I always told my self that I think I'm almost like my mom stubborn in some ways....My dad would always tell me at the end of every day that you guys fight MOM IS STILL YOUR MOM!! some times you have to let it go and not say anything and say mom your right instead of fighting back! and you know what my dads sooo right cause the fighting dont last as long lmbo! When I got married everything turned with my mom! she was always trying to get close to me and I hated that because I wasn't use to that kind of relationship with her!! till I had Jayiarose it was like the cure to my relationship with my mom! It was nice.. my mom was there for everything to screaming and holding my hand for the hours I was in labor while misi kept walking out the room cause he hated the hospital... lol to the times she flew down in a heart beat when I got sick!! she dropped her job and came while my husband couldn't leave work to stay with me! I than thought bout how selfish I was to my mom and how bad a daughter I was to her! Shes the woman I will forever be in debt to because I never took the time to thank her for the small things or realised that she the type of person who shows her love by giving or through service!! I never took the time to think of it that way, instead I chose to argue with her. If I ever needed anything in this world it would be my mom who would be the first one there!! So those of you who think that my moms evil lol its juss a hobby lol but shes truly an amazing woman that I am grateful and blessed to call mom and if you ever read this mom I LOVE YOU and thank you for showing me how to be a better mother and wife I truly wouldn't change or ask for any other parent but you and dad!!! BLESSED WITH GOODLY PARENTS!!! FOREVER GREATFUL

Soccer Mom it is

So this is what soccer for the two oldest look like! lol while David is running around saying "whats up homie" Jayia is on the field doing her own thing like waiting for the camera to

zoom in on her or trying to run pretty! I enjoy putting my kids in sports because it gives us all something to attend as a family and help support eachother!! My dad kinda rubbed off on me with the whole sports thing. Since we were little my dad is always putting us in sports like Basketball and football I even did cheerleading!! eww I cant believe I really did that:/ and from middle school to high school it was basketball, football for the boys, volleyball, track and repeat again and again until we graduated lol. The real secret to staying out of trouble in high school was keeping yourself busy and I think my dad was ahead of the game;) which I am truly greatful for and I hope I can be juss like him...

**The Lucky Three**

So this is what I had to deal with till I got married;) having two brothers is the bestest thing ever! but being the only girl I have to admit suckz. People think being the only girl is a good thing because you get spoiled and get what ever you want! Ha no it doesn't work that way... it means LOCK DOWN till your old enough to get married hahaha really that's how it works out! Thank goodness for a sister figure Ruby Rose Fonua we were able to get away with some things we weren't able to get away with alone lol.. then that's when the annoying brothers come in and ruin our fun and tell the parentals everything!! lol but you know what I'm glad they did..they wouldn't be brothers if they stood there and watched us do things we all wouldn't be proud of. Richard where would I start with him? lol he's the one i never really had trouble with growing up! he was always nice to me, gave me almost everything I wanted if he had it. He's the one I would cry for if he got in trouble or if my dad yelled at him. My little brother haha hes another story we stay young at heart!! I literally would Punch him and kick him every time he got to me when we were little. I would always pick on him and tell him how soft he is and that hes gunna grow up to be a girl!! lol since we all graduated from high school we all gotten closer to each other. Ive actually become so close to my little brother that every time he comes to Utah to visit I'm crying for him not leave :) Its hard not to have them around. My older brother lives in provo and my little one lives in California! Seeing life and the way it is I'm extremely glad to have two brothers! I LOVE MY BROTHERS NO MATTER WHAT MAY COME BETWEEN US:) " some times having a BROTHER is better than having a SUPER HERO"

The way my kids look here are exactly how I want them too look when they get older like the picture above:) Best friends!! I'm still shootin for another boy so hes not alone and stuck with two girls :) I LOVE MY KIDS and wouldn't have it any other way!!

I know he missed his dad last night

HIS DAD AND MOM

My husband out of no where started to talk about his dad last night! =( I love hearing stories but then again makes me sad for him because I know he misses him and wishes he could of been able to fix things when he was alive. I told myself what would I do if I lost my dad? idk I don't think there would be a day that passes that I wouldn't cry or think about him. Misi told me a story about a time when he was young and it was Christmas eve and his parents went out to Kmart to grab a few presents and Misi was soooo excited he was thinking to himself " yes I'm going to get all the toys I asked for" so when the Christmas night came he remembered his sisters opening all these presents and he sitting their hadn't got one yet until the last present came and it was for him. He opened it with a sad face and just sat there upset because he only had one!!Last night he sat there and started to tear up a lil because he said he wish he had never felt that way that night because his dad saw how sad his face was but it was cause he couldn't afford more for him..Misi realised a lot as he grew up and how important it is to just be happy with what you can afford like the lil stories below. All last night we talked a lot about his dad im sure he missed him sooo much. I cant sit here and say I feel what hes going through because I don't. But listening to his lil stories made me appreciate my dad a lot more and to be happy with what we have!!Even though he is not here with us physically we know hes with us spiritually and that we think of you often Sione Tupou Vaea=)R.I.Paradise

Talk the night away

So last night was one those nights that I missed...talking till we fell asleep=) We talked about lots of things like "IS IT BAD TO FEEL A LIL JEALOUS WHEN YOU SEE SOME ONE HAVE ALL THESE NICE THINGS AND YOU STILL HAVE CRAPPY STUFF?" and my husband says the right words... he said in order to be happy you have to enjoy and love what you can afford, but like they say you can have all these expensive cars and nice house and an expensive ring etc but all that wont love you back!! The the things we do have that matter the most we already have like our kids. We can buy the most cheapest toy for our kids and still see the same exact excitement on their faces even if it was an expensive one, which my husband was right!! Some of their toys that they got for Xmas was one THE cheapest ones and they went crazy. Some times wanting more breaks you in many different ways financially, and emotionally.
We even sat and talked about why some people treat us different or why they treat out kids different? All he could say is that their HATERS:) I wouldn't know the answer to it but my husband was saying that a lot of people wants to see us fall but we don't and no matter how many times they do us wrong and push us down we still get back up and act like everything is okay. My husband feels like every time we try it gets worse so he decided it will be all about just "US"!! Since we been trying to do us its actually been good, but i thought to myself it would be better if we were all good but i guess it will never work that way. My husband told me that he doesn't need anything expensive or fancy as long as he made his wife and kids happy! He doesn't need anybody to love him back as long as his wife and kids love him back=) because at the end of the day we are who he comes home to nobody else. Failing is not an option unless you choose to. So those of you who want us to fail Sorry bout it were still goin one hunnit!!
I asked my husband how long he will live and my husband replied till I'm one hundred five!! I smiled and kinda teary eyed because his numbers he gave me was comforting to know that hes gonna try and live that long. I asked him why 105 he said because he wanted to make sure my kids have everything and that i wont be left alone with out him=) I smiled even though some people realistically don't live that long but its still comforting to hear him say that. I love my kids and my Husband regardless of what we go through and what trials are thrown at us to face were still solid!! we fight at times but it only makes us stronger!! I may cry and wish i was never married but their just words of anger. You know we've might have messed up and didn't get the wedding we wished to have but i wouldn't have it any other way because i had Jayia as my first born and tevita as my second and nani as my third. I'm happy and grateful for all that i been through day in and day out. Grateful for my FAMILY and all that they do especially my hard working husband who may not afford fancy things but makes my life worth living for=) I love you James Newton Vaea

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