My husband out of no where started to talk about his dad last night! =( I love hearing stories but then again makes me sad for him because I know he misses him and wishes he could of been able to fix things when he was alive. I told myself what would I do if I lost my dad? idk I don't think there would be a day that passes that I wouldn't cry or think about him. Misi told me a story about a time when he was young and it was Christmas eve and his parents went out to Kmart to grab a few presents and Misi was soooo excited he was thinking to himself " yes I'm going to get all the toys I asked for" so when the Christmas night came he remembered his sisters opening all these presents and he sitting their hadn't got one yet until the last present came and it was for him. He opened it with a sad face and just sat there upset because he only had one!!Last night he sat there and started to tear up a lil because he said he wish he had never felt that way that night because his dad saw how sad his face was but it was cause he couldn't afford more for him..Misi realised a lot as he grew up and how important it is to just be happy with what you can afford like the lil stories below. All last night we talked a lot about his dad im sure he missed him sooo much. I cant sit here and say I feel what hes going through because I don't. But listening to his lil stories made me appreciate my dad a lot more and to be happy with what we have!!Even though he is not here with us physically we know hes with us spiritually and that we think of you often Sione Tupou Vaea=)R.I.Paradise
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love the new posts sis! you and jay have definitely came a long way--so proud of yall...and poor jay missn his dad...i have NO IDEA how me OR you would ever get thru that...but send my love...love you sis!
thanks ru i blogged it this mornin cause i was the only one awake while j already left for wk. we stayed up till like 3:45am but yea it was nice to have night talks. love you sis=)
i know how you feel. every so often gabriel gets sad and misses his mom tremendously; it's not something i can relate to, but like you, i feel his sorrow and pain too. it's such a hard thing to watch them go through. i'm sure it helps him that he has you to vent to and that you feel his pain. you're such a good wife Fia.
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