MEET THE SISTER INLAWS

 THIS IS MY OLDEST BROTHER LISIATE RYAN NAEATA MARRIED TO LATA MATA FINAU!!!

LATA:
-SIMPLE
-DOESNT ASK FOR MUCH
-ALWAYS OFFERS HER HELP
-SAYS YES EVEN WHEN SHES NOT UP TO IT
-HAPPY MOST TIMES
-KIDS ADORE HER
-LOVING
-ALWAYS GIVES MORE EVEN WHEN ITS NOT NEEDED
-ALWAYS DOING WHATS BEST FOR HER AND MY BROTHER AND BABY POU

THIS IS EMMA FILIAGA DANCING WITH GPA ON WEDDING DAY!! EMMA IS MARRIED TO TO MY YOUNGEST BROTHER TEVITA LEIALA NAEATA

MAKING THIS ONE SHORT AND SIMPLE BEYOND BLESSED TO HAVE THESE TWO LADIES AS MY SISTER IN LAWS WEATHER I LIKED IT BEFORE THEY GOT MARRIED TO MY BROTHERS OR NOT I WILL LEARN TO LOVE IT HAHAHA I'M KIDDNG I DO LOVE THEM EVEN IF WE ANNOY EACH OTHER OR WANNA RIP EACH OTHERS HAIR OUT AT THE END OF THE DAY THESE LADIES WILL BE THE LADY MY BROTHERS WILL LOVE!!! SO SISTERS WE WILL BE LOL!!! THANK YOU TO THEM FOR PUTTING UP WITH ME AND MY SILLY JOKES WEATHER THERE MEAN OR NOT FUNNY AT ALL AND FOR LOVING MY KIDS AND LOVING MY BROTHERS AND MOST OF ALL LOVING AND RESPECTING MY PARENTS LIKE YOUR OWN.   

EMMA:

-EASY TO TALK TO

-LOVING

-SPORTY

-LAUGHS AT MY BROTHERS LAME JOKES HAHA -

-SHOPS WITH MOM MORE THAN I PROBLY EVER HAVE

-KIDS LOVE HER

-GIANT

-CAN HANG WITH MY JOKES EVEN IF IT SOUNDS RUDE

-PRIMARY COUNSELOR

-EXPECTING BABY GIRL

-SAMOAN

-PEOPLE PERSON

-HATES TO BE BORED LOL

-TAUGHT MY FATBOY HOW TO SOUND THINGS OUT MUCH MORE CLEAR

-TOO NICE

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HIS NAME IS PENISILIVENIA MORONI VAEA

                                                            MY MIRACLE BABY

THERE HE IS EVERYBODY MY BABY #4 BORN JULY 28 2012 10:30AM 7LBS 10OZ AND PERFECT AS CAN BE. WELL SO I KNOW ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I LAST POSTED ON THIS BLOG BUT I THOUGHT I WOULD START UP AND CATCH UP ON EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED SINCE I LAST POSTED AND NOW!! SO FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DON'T KNOW THE STORY BEHIND THIS LETS JUST SAY LISTENING TO MY OWN INSTINCT WAS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE BESIDES MAKING THE CHOICE TO BE SEALED WITH MY LITTLE FAMILY FOR ALL ETERNITY:) MY FIRST OBGYN THAT I WENT TO FOR THIS BABY NUMBER HAD CONFIRMED THAT I WAS PREGNANT AND THAT I WAS AT LEAST 3MONTHS INTO MY PREGNANCY SO SHE DECIDED TO DO AN ULTRASOUND AND IT TOOK HER A WHILE TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT WEATHER OR NOT SHE SEES BABY OR NOT OR THE HEART BEAT OR WHAT NOT SO SHE SAID "SOPHIA I THINK YOUR A LIL EARLY THAN I THOUGHT BECAUSE I CANT SEE ANYTHING SO LETS CHECK UP AGAIN IN ANOTHER 2WEEKS" I REPLIED OKAY SOUNDS GOOD!!
2WEEKS CAME AROUND AND THAT SAME WEEKEND I HAD PLANNED TO GO TO CALIFORNIA FOR NEW YEARS WITH THE FAMILY AND BEFORE WE LEFT I HAD MY ULTRASOUND CHECK UP WITH MY DOCTOR AND AGAIN I WAS LAYING THERE WAITING FOR HER TO SAY SOMETHING TO ME  WHICH SEEMED LIKE THE LONGEST 6MINUTES OF LIFE.....SHE THAN SAYS TO ME AFTER PUTTING THE EQUIPMENT AWAY "SOPHIA I'M SORRY IT LOOKS LIKE YOU HAD SOME KIND OF MISCARRIAGE BECAUSE ALL I SEE IS AN EMPTY SAC WITH NO BABY" AS SHE WAS TALKING IT WAS IF I HAD WENT DEAF AND JUST STARTED TO CRY!!! I COULDN'T BARE TO HEAR ABOUT A MISCARRIAGE OR THIS PAST THREE MONTHS I DIDN'T HAVE A BABY IN MY BELLY BUT AN EMPTY SAC:'( ALL OF A SUDDEN MY MY OBGYN AT THE TIME HAD GIVEN ME A PRESCRIPTION THAT I HAD TO TAKE TO MAKE MY SAC DROP, BEING THAT SHE KNEW I WAS LEAVING FOR CALIFORNIA SHE SAID I CAN DO IT WHEN I GET BACK FROM CALIFORNIA BECAUSE IT MAKES ME CRAMP FROM THE SAC DROPPING... I GRABBED MY THINGS AND STARTED HEADING TO MY CAR DIALING MY HUSBANDS NUMBER AND CRYING AS IF I HAD ALREADY KNEW THE BABY IN ME, ITS WEIRD AND HARD TO EXPLAIN BUT EVEN THOUGH I WAS NOT THAT FAR ALONG IN PREGNANCY THE FEELING WAS JUST TO MUCH FOR ME TO BARE!! SO THAT SAME DAY I THOUGHT TO MYSELF IF I GO TO CALIFORNIA IT WILL GET THINGS OFF MY MIND AND HELP ME MOVE ON.
MY HOME WARD IN CALIFORNIA HAD A DANCE GOING ON THAT SAME WEEKEND WE GOT TO CALIFORNIA AND THE FIRST THING I HEAR IS CONGRATS ON BABY#4 AND THAN SOME STARTS TO RUB BELLY AND BOOM I WAS BACK INTO DEPRESSION MODE I DIDN'T WANNA BE ANYWHERE BUT HOME SO I LEFT WENT HOME COUNTED DOWN FOR NEW YEARS WITH MY DAD AND MOM AND KIDS AND MY DAD CALLS ME AND SAID "FIA YOU SURE THERE'S NO BABY? MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET A SECOND OPINION" I SAID "YES I'M SURE SHE EVEN SHOWED ME AND I SAW NOTHING" SO THAN HE ASKED IF IT WAS OKAY HE GAVE ME A BLESSING AND I STARTED TO TEAR UP JUST BECAUSE I FELT LIKE I NEEDED ONE AND THAT A WORTHY PRIESTHOOD SPECIALLY MY OWN DAD KNOWS WHEN ITS NEEDED NOT ONLY FOR COMFORT BUT FOR UNDERSTANDING AS WELL AND I'M TRULY BLESSED TO STILL BE ABLE TO HAVE A FATHERS BLESSING.
IT WAS TIME FOR US TO HEAD BACK HOME TO UTAH AND THAT WAS THE LAST THING I WANTED BECAUSE I KNOW WHEN I GO BACK I'M GOING TO GO THROUGH THIS HOLE THING WITH MAKING THE SAC THAT THE BABY WAS SUPPOSE TO BE IN DROP AND OF COURSE IT WASN'T GOING TO BE EASY. ON OUR LONG DRIVE HOME I HAD GOTTEN SICK THAT MY POOR HUSBAND HAD TO TRY AND STAY AWAKE DRIVING AND MY BROTHER AND HIS WIFE PULLED OVER A MILLION TIMES WITH US TO MAKE SURE I WAS OKAY!! THE FIRST THING WHEN WE GOT TO UTAH WAS DROP MY KIDS TO MY BROTHERS HOUSE AND HE TOOK ME TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM AT THE UNIVERSITY GOT CHECKED IN AND TOLD THEM ABOUT ALL THE INFORMATION ABOUT HOW I WAS SUPPOSE TO MAKE THE SAC DROP WITH THE MEDS THAT MY OB HAD GIVEN ME BUT I DIDN'T DO IT YET I JUST GOT BACK INTO TOWN FROM CALIFORNIA. THE DOCS HAD TOLD ME IT COULD BE AN INFECTION FROM THE SAC BEING IN TOO LONG WITH NO BABY BUT  THEY WILL GO AHEAD AND DO A SPECIAL ULTRASOUND TO SEE WHATS GOING ON. HOURS LATER I'M IN THIS BIG ROOM WITH BIG TV'S AND A HIGH TECH ULTRA SOUND AND WITH IN MINUTES OF LOOKING AND CHECKING MY BELLY DOC TELLS ME "LOOKS LIKE YOU HAVE A BABY THAT'S STILL ALIVE AND HE IS GROWING AND BABY'S HEART IS STRONG AND HEALTHY" THAT WAS MUSIC TO MY EARS AND MADE ME THE HAPPIEST MOMMA ALIVE THAT DAY!!! I TOLD MY SELF UNDER MY BREATH "I KNEW YOU WERE IN THERE CAUSE I FELT YOU ALL ALONG" THAT'S PROBABLY WHY IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME BECAUSE I FELT BABY MOVING AND DEEP DOWN INSIDE I KNOW THAT THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG I JUST DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT IT BEING THAT I NEVER HAD A MISCARRIAGE BEFORE BUT IF ANYTHING I AM SO BLESSED AND HAPPY THAT I WENT TO CALI WHEN I DID AND GOT SICK WHEN I DID ON THE WAY HOME BECAUSE IF I DIDN'T I THINK I WOULDN'T HAVE HAD MY PENI BOY!!! WE NAMES HIM AFTER HIS UNCLE MY HUSBANDS BROTHER AND NAMED HIS MIDDLE NAME MORONI FROM THE SCRIPTURES!!! MY BABY BOY WE LOVE YOU

Were Having a Baby BOY

So i havent been able to get a pic of my ultra sound on my laptop but i will...we have been blessed with another baby BOY!! yay im way excited and cant wait... Theres a lot of reasons why im excited #1 because i only have one boy who i really thought can use another brother!!

#2 because my kids asked if we can have a boy #3 i thought being evened out with two girls and two boys would be juss perfect#4 because its going to be my last kid so i was hoping even more that this next one would be a BOY and their he was with his legs open in the ultra sound with his peepee showing clear that its a boy!! i was kinda in lowkey tears just because its what my lil family was hoping for!! During the ultrasound the tech told me it looks like baby is a lil further along than what the doc was predicting which is aug 7th and im schedualed for a csection on the 31st of july and now shes telling me looks like i should be having baby around july 15th so umm will see i just told the tech that poly babies juss come bigger than normal babies lol idk i could be wrong maybe my due date is wrong lol anyways all in all im very thankful and greatful to the man up stairs for blessing our family with a baby boy.... my ultrasound looked a lot like this one i found online till than ill soon copy the original.....lol.....

Little Brothers Bride To Be

So this is it the last of us to be married the little baby brother DAVID... how he met her idk lol as long as hes happy and takes it to the temple for all time and eternity than were all happy!!!The big baby is all grown up now and looking chunkier by the min lol you know what they say when you get married you blow up.his case it started a lil early hahah jk.. well i guess that juss a Tongan thing lol cause i sure did...or maybe ill blame it on the babies i had over the years lol.... So his bride to all i know is shes Samoan and from IDAHO and her name is EMA so far i love her well the time spent with her has been so far so good.. and hope it stays that way lol cause the wedding is still to come and you know Tongan weddings there's always something that either goes down with family or just something comes up unexpectedly!! BUT I'm totally excited for the wedding and cant wait for his wedding day....FIRST WEEKEND OF JULY IS THE BIG WEEKEND stay tuned for more after the wedding!!

A Day @ THE TEMPLE & LOOK WHAT I CAPTURED

SO THE PIC ABOVE IS WITH OUT FLASH AND LOOK HOW NICE IT IS? CONF CENTER AND WHERE IM STANDING IS ACROSS THE STREET NEAR THE TEMPLE... I THINK IM GUNNA GO INTO PHOTOGRAPHY ONLY CAUSE ITS SOMETHING I ACTUALLY LIKE I HAVENT TAKEN A CLASS YET BUT I GOTTA SAY IM KINDA OKAY LOL FOR NOT TAKING A CLASS FOR PHOTOGRAPHY....
AND HERES THE TEMPLE NO FLASH EITHER AND CAME OUT BEAUTIFUL ....
AND MY LAST ONE OF THE TEMPLE BEFORE I LEFT.... STAY TOONED IM TAKING HOLIDAY PHOTOS OF MY KIDS AND I HOPE THEY COME OUT NICE!!!

The first man I ever LOVED and the first woman I will forever be greatful for and LOVE

What can I say... MY HERO'S.... First off my daddio Seleti Mofuike Naeata the first man I first Loved. Since the day I stepped into the earth its always been him that i ran to if mom said NO!!! Even being married and all I still ask him for things, I mean that's what daughters do right! Specially the ONLY GIRLS lmbo.. The person I am today is because of this humble guy! Through my trials and tribulations my parents were the only one standing weather they were embarrassed of what i did or not they still stood by me. My dad man there are no words that can explain my love for him and what he has done for me and my little family, especially my kids. I can actually talk to him better than I talk to my mom. I even call to tell him that my mom is being mean lol. Its a specially connection that i have with him that I cant explain. I think I owe my life to this man because of what he has done for me and the examples he sets and the joy and laughter he brings me! Just seeing him makes me smile and on top of that because I live in Utah now theres not a day that passes that I dont think of him. So If my dad were to ever read this I just want to tell my dad that through the years that you raised me and all the yelling to lectures to whippings lol your still my hero! you raised me to be on hell of a drama QUEEN lmbo!! but in a good way! taught me how to love those around me, to never give up on anything, to be a good example, to smile even if I'm mad!! to HUMBLE my self.. to support my husband to be his backbone when he needs me!! even though decisions I made in life arnt the best you still LOVED me the SAME! I love you and Thank you for everything you done for me.**YOUR MY HERO DADDY** As for my mother Tupou Ahau suliafu Naeata!! Man where do i start with this lady lol. haha just kidding. So my mom and I always had our times where it almost seemed as if we were sisters!! we fought all the time no matter where we were!! we were both to stubborn to be wrong or to admit it at least so we fought till my dad became part of the problem!! I always thought to myself if my mom was my sister it would be all bad!! lol to the point my dad would always take my side and than after we solved everything my mom was mad at my dad for taking my side!! But I always told my self that I think I'm almost like my mom stubborn in some ways....My dad would always tell me at the end of every day that you guys fight MOM IS STILL YOUR MOM!! some times you have to let it go and not say anything and say mom your right instead of fighting back! and you know what my dads sooo right cause the fighting dont last as long lmbo! When I got married everything turned with my mom! she was always trying to get close to me and I hated that because I wasn't use to that kind of relationship with her!! till I had Jayiarose it was like the cure to my relationship with my mom! It was nice.. my mom was there for everything to screaming and holding my hand for the hours I was in labor while misi kept walking out the room cause he hated the hospital... lol to the times she flew down in a heart beat when I got sick!! she dropped her job and came while my husband couldn't leave work to stay with me! I than thought bout how selfish I was to my mom and how bad a daughter I was to her! Shes the woman I will forever be in debt to because I never took the time to thank her for the small things or realised that she the type of person who shows her love by giving or through service!! I never took the time to think of it that way, instead I chose to argue with her. If I ever needed anything in this world it would be my mom who would be the first one there!! So those of you who think that my moms evil lol its juss a hobby lol but shes truly an amazing woman that I am grateful and blessed to call mom and if you ever read this mom I LOVE YOU and thank you for showing me how to be a better mother and wife I truly wouldn't change or ask for any other parent but you and dad!!! BLESSED WITH GOODLY PARENTS!!! FOREVER GREATFUL

Soccer Mom it is

So this is what soccer for the two oldest look like! lol while David is running around saying "whats up homie" Jayia is on the field doing her own thing like waiting for the camera to

zoom in on her or trying to run pretty! I enjoy putting my kids in sports because it gives us all something to attend as a family and help support eachother!! My dad kinda rubbed off on me with the whole sports thing. Since we were little my dad is always putting us in sports like Basketball and football I even did cheerleading!! eww I cant believe I really did that:/ and from middle school to high school it was basketball, football for the boys, volleyball, track and repeat again and again until we graduated lol. The real secret to staying out of trouble in high school was keeping yourself busy and I think my dad was ahead of the game;) which I am truly greatful for and I hope I can be juss like him...

**The Lucky Three**

So this is what I had to deal with till I got married;) having two brothers is the bestest thing ever! but being the only girl I have to admit suckz. People think being the only girl is a good thing because you get spoiled and get what ever you want! Ha no it doesn't work that way... it means LOCK DOWN till your old enough to get married hahaha really that's how it works out! Thank goodness for a sister figure Ruby Rose Fonua we were able to get away with some things we weren't able to get away with alone lol.. then that's when the annoying brothers come in and ruin our fun and tell the parentals everything!! lol but you know what I'm glad they did..they wouldn't be brothers if they stood there and watched us do things we all wouldn't be proud of. Richard where would I start with him? lol he's the one i never really had trouble with growing up! he was always nice to me, gave me almost everything I wanted if he had it. He's the one I would cry for if he got in trouble or if my dad yelled at him. My little brother haha hes another story we stay young at heart!! I literally would Punch him and kick him every time he got to me when we were little. I would always pick on him and tell him how soft he is and that hes gunna grow up to be a girl!! lol since we all graduated from high school we all gotten closer to each other. Ive actually become so close to my little brother that every time he comes to Utah to visit I'm crying for him not leave :) Its hard not to have them around. My older brother lives in provo and my little one lives in California! Seeing life and the way it is I'm extremely glad to have two brothers! I LOVE MY BROTHERS NO MATTER WHAT MAY COME BETWEEN US:) " some times having a BROTHER is better than having a SUPER HERO"

The way my kids look here are exactly how I want them too look when they get older like the picture above:) Best friends!! I'm still shootin for another boy so hes not alone and stuck with two girls :) I LOVE MY KIDS and wouldn't have it any other way!!

I know he missed his dad last night

HIS DAD AND MOM

My husband out of no where started to talk about his dad last night! =( I love hearing stories but then again makes me sad for him because I know he misses him and wishes he could of been able to fix things when he was alive. I told myself what would I do if I lost my dad? idk I don't think there would be a day that passes that I wouldn't cry or think about him. Misi told me a story about a time when he was young and it was Christmas eve and his parents went out to Kmart to grab a few presents and Misi was soooo excited he was thinking to himself " yes I'm going to get all the toys I asked for" so when the Christmas night came he remembered his sisters opening all these presents and he sitting their hadn't got one yet until the last present came and it was for him. He opened it with a sad face and just sat there upset because he only had one!!Last night he sat there and started to tear up a lil because he said he wish he had never felt that way that night because his dad saw how sad his face was but it was cause he couldn't afford more for him..Misi realised a lot as he grew up and how important it is to just be happy with what you can afford like the lil stories below. All last night we talked a lot about his dad im sure he missed him sooo much. I cant sit here and say I feel what hes going through because I don't. But listening to his lil stories made me appreciate my dad a lot more and to be happy with what we have!!Even though he is not here with us physically we know hes with us spiritually and that we think of you often Sione Tupou Vaea=)R.I.Paradise

Talk the night away

So last night was one those nights that I missed...talking till we fell asleep=) We talked about lots of things like "IS IT BAD TO FEEL A LIL JEALOUS WHEN YOU SEE SOME ONE HAVE ALL THESE NICE THINGS AND YOU STILL HAVE CRAPPY STUFF?" and my husband says the right words... he said in order to be happy you have to enjoy and love what you can afford, but like they say you can have all these expensive cars and nice house and an expensive ring etc but all that wont love you back!! The the things we do have that matter the most we already have like our kids. We can buy the most cheapest toy for our kids and still see the same exact excitement on their faces even if it was an expensive one, which my husband was right!! Some of their toys that they got for Xmas was one THE cheapest ones and they went crazy. Some times wanting more breaks you in many different ways financially, and emotionally.
We even sat and talked about why some people treat us different or why they treat out kids different? All he could say is that their HATERS:) I wouldn't know the answer to it but my husband was saying that a lot of people wants to see us fall but we don't and no matter how many times they do us wrong and push us down we still get back up and act like everything is okay. My husband feels like every time we try it gets worse so he decided it will be all about just "US"!! Since we been trying to do us its actually been good, but i thought to myself it would be better if we were all good but i guess it will never work that way. My husband told me that he doesn't need anything expensive or fancy as long as he made his wife and kids happy! He doesn't need anybody to love him back as long as his wife and kids love him back=) because at the end of the day we are who he comes home to nobody else. Failing is not an option unless you choose to. So those of you who want us to fail Sorry bout it were still goin one hunnit!!
I asked my husband how long he will live and my husband replied till I'm one hundred five!! I smiled and kinda teary eyed because his numbers he gave me was comforting to know that hes gonna try and live that long. I asked him why 105 he said because he wanted to make sure my kids have everything and that i wont be left alone with out him=) I smiled even though some people realistically don't live that long but its still comforting to hear him say that. I love my kids and my Husband regardless of what we go through and what trials are thrown at us to face were still solid!! we fight at times but it only makes us stronger!! I may cry and wish i was never married but their just words of anger. You know we've might have messed up and didn't get the wedding we wished to have but i wouldn't have it any other way because i had Jayia as my first born and tevita as my second and nani as my third. I'm happy and grateful for all that i been through day in and day out. Grateful for my FAMILY and all that they do especially my hard working husband who may not afford fancy things but makes my life worth living for=) I love you James Newton Vaea

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